Have you ever been in line at the checkout and the guy behind you is getting too close….awkwardly close? How do you react? What is your body language like? What is your facial expression?

 

I’ll bet your expression is a cross between curiosity and suspicion.  Your eyes are watching carefully; you’re on high alert.  Your body language is likely standoffish and you’re tense; you’re ready to react or even defend yourself if necessary.

 

Is that normal?  Perhaps it’s a bit stronger than necessary for a checkout lineup, but your natural instinct is to protect yourself.  You interpreted the intrusion of your personal space as a possible threat, and you’re on high alert until the threat subsides.

 

This human instinct to protect yourself and your personal space is a normal human reaction, and it doesn’t disappear just because someone has dementia.

 

In fact, this instinct to protect oneself may become even stronger in the face of dementia.

 

 

This self-protection instinct comes from the amygdala, a small area deep within your brain.  The amygdala continues to send out survival instincts even when other portions of the brain are affected by dementia.

 

The part of the brain that houses reason and logic—the prefrontal cortex—is often first affected by dementia.  It is this part of the brain that allows you to think through a situation and respond appropriately.

 

When the guy at the grocery store gets too close, your amygdala sends out a threat alert, but your prefrontal cortex uses logic to assess and notices that the store is crowded.  You then realize that the guy moved into your personal space because he was bumped from behind.  There is no threat after all, and your prefrontal cortex sends a message to the Amygdala that all is safe and secure.

 

For someone who’s prefrontal cortex is affected by dementia, their ability to assess the situation for danger diminishes.  Their amygdala is still sending out the danger warning, but they do not have the ability to use logic or reason to understand the situation and reduce their sense of risk.

 

Think back to your initial reaction to the guy in the checkout line—your facial reaction and body language were not friendly or welcoming, were they?  That’s because you were feeling at risk for just a second.  Now think about someone with dementia who may have a concerned or suspicious expression on their face or their body language is reactive.  Perhaps they are feeling threatened and they are on high alert.

 

That person with dementia may not be able to use logic or reason to reassure themselves that there is no threat.  If someone is in their personal space, and they feel threatened, they will react exactly like you did—defensively.  They will not be able to contextualize and say “oh, that person is wearing scrubs. It must be a doctor or a nurse who is in my personal space to treat me medically.” 

 

They may not recognize a family member, friend, care provider, or fellow resident. If they don’t recognize the person who is entering their personal space, then that person may feel as strange as the guy in the checkout line.  If so, the reaction—even to a family member or friend—will be the same defensive reaction as a stranger intruding on space.

 

What can you do?

 

When you’re interacting with someone who has dementia, be on the lookout for defensive body language.  If you notice a defensive stance or a suspicious facial expression, recognize that the person with dementia may be feeling threatened or at risk and help them to feel reassured. 

 

Be kind, and help them to contextualize.

 

Fill in the missing details that their brain may not be able to supply.  Help them to recognize relationships or connections and do not enter their personal space until you are sure they welcome you.

 

A beloved family member with dementia may not recognize your face, but they will recognize how you make them feel. Focus on helping them to feel safe and reassured, and the defensive behaviour will melt away.

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Falling is a serious concern for the elderly.  Falling can cause a fracture which leads to a whole series of problematic health outcomes. 

 

What about someone who has dementia? At quick glance, it would seem that dementia and falls are not related.  Yet, the data indicates that those with dementia are at a higher risk of falling.  In fact, according to the Canadian Institute for Health Information, 15% of all Emergency Visits by seniors with dementia are fall-related (compared to only 9% of other seniors).

 

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Why is that?

There are a number of risk factors that are exacerbated for those who have dementia. Here are a few:

 

Medications: some of the medications associated with dementia can have side effects which cause drowsiness, dizziness, or instability.  Antipsychotic medications sometimes have a side effect of orthostatic hypotension, which is a sudden drop in blood pressure when you stand up.

 

Visual Perception Changes: dementia can affect someone’s ability to process what they are seeing. Depth perception, in particular, is affected and impacts fall risk.

 

Spatial Judgement: dementia can impact someone’s spatial awareness and ability to judge distances making it difficult to navigate around hazards or prevent bumping into obstacles

 

Fatigue: many people with dementia are keen to walk incessantly, but sometimes they fail to notice when they are tired and they don’t rest when needed. 

 

Mobility Aids: when a walker is introduced for safety, someone with dementia may have trouble remembering how to use the walker, or remembering to use it at all.


Washroom Needs: the sudden urge to use the washroom may cause someone to rush for the bathroom, especially if help is not on the way quickly enough.

 

Boredom: when feeling bored, lonely, confused, uncertain, or in pain, some people with dementia tend to get up and start pacing, but it may not be safe to do so.

How can you help to prevent a fall?

There are many items to consider for fall prevention, especially among those who have dementia. Here are a few modifications or suggestions you can implement to increase safety for your loved one.

 

ENVIRONMENT

Someone with dementia may not be able to scan the environment and take note of risks or hazards. They may not be able to process something as risky, and they may not be thinking about safety and fall prevention. 

 

Aim to make the environment safer on your loved one’s behalf by:

  • Decluttering
  • Removing floor mats and other tripping hazards
  • Keep frequently used items within arm’s reach

 

VISIBILITY

Since your loved one with dementia may be experiencing perception changes, try to see their environment through their eyes. 

 

Some recommended adjustments:

  • Increase the lighting—people with dementia require brighter lighting to easily see their surroundings
  • Use contrast colours to make items more visible (i.e: a beige door on a beige wall may be hard to see; paint the door a contrast colour for easier way-finding)
  • Clearly mark the edges of steps

SOCIAL NEEDS

Boredom is the cause of many so-called behaviours in dementia, pacing included.  All humans have a desire to be productive and to be doing something meaningful.  Someone with dementia may be confused about what that activity should be, and in the absence of something obvious to do, they may create an activity that can be a fall risk.

 

To prevent this concern:

  • Keep your loved ones busy with an activity that is meaningful to them. If they are content and engaged in an activity, they’ll be less likely to wander away and be at risk of falling
  • Maintain social connections

PHYSICAL ACTIVITY

Someone with dementia may attempt to walk faster than their current physical ability permits, which can increase their risk of falling.  Failing to use mobility aids can add to that risk as well.

 

To help mitigate these risks:

  • Continue strength-based exercises to maintain strength and mobility for as long as possible
  • Constantly remind and demonstrate how to use mobility aids correctly until it becomes a new habit
  • Provide ample opportunities to be up and walking with support when someone is present to assist, reducing the impulse to pace later.

The risk of falling increases as someone ages, but that risk accelerates when dementia is added to the mix. By identifying some of the additional risk factors faced by someone with dementia, a family can aim to mitigate those risks and put preventative safety practices in place. Protect your loved ones by following fall prevention safety guidelines!

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