7 Father’s Day Gift Ideas

Father’s Day is a cherished opportunity to celebrate the special bond between fathers and their children. It's a time to express gratitude for all the love, support, and guidance Dad has provided throughout the years.

Here are some thoughtful ideas to make Father’s Day extra special:

 

Photo by Markus Spiske

 

1. Enjoy Outdoor Activities

Take advantage of the beautiful weather and spend quality time with Dad outdoors. Whether it’s a round of golf, a leisurely walk, or a hike in nature, soaking up the sunshine together is a great way to create lasting memories.

 

2. Give the Gift of Home Maintenance

Help lighten Dad’s load by taking care of some household tasks for him. Consider arranging for lawn care, garden upkeep, or housekeeping services to give him a well-deserved break from chores.

 

3. Personalize Care Packages

Put together a care package filled with Dad’s favorite items, such as grooming products, snacks, or hobby supplies. Personalize the package with thoughtful touches that reflect his interests and preferences.

 

4. Create a Family Photo Wall

Capture cherished memories by creating a family photo wall in Dad’s home. Choose photos that bring him joy and comfort, and consider selecting images that resonate with his fondest memories.

 

5. Gift Comfort and Relaxation

Give Dad the gift of comfort with a cozy quilt or a weighted blanket. These items can provide warmth and relaxation, perfect for unwinding after a long day or enjoying a peaceful night’s sleep.

 

Remember, Father’s Day is a time to celebrate the love and support Dad has given throughout the years. Whether you’re spending the day together in person or sending your love from afar, let Dad know how much he means to you.

 

Wishing all the dads, grandfathers, and great-grandfathers a happy Father’s Day filled with love and appreciation!

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In a few months, your parents will be celebrating their 62nd wedding anniversary. After more than six decades together, they’re practically inseparable. Their staunch European background has rendered them rather emotionally reserved, but of course, they love each other in their own quiet way.

 

Your mother was the queen of the domestic domain, cooking, cleaning, raising children, and managing the household. Your father worked hard to provide for the family and took care of the yard, cars, and handyman jobs. His way of demonstrating love to his family was to work hard and provide well. These roles worked well for your parents through decades of marriage and countless life challenges.

 

 

Facing New Challenges

But now your mother has Parkinson’s Disease. It has been progressing over the past few years, and what started as a minor tremor in her left arm has now become debilitating. She struggles with tasks that require dexterity because her tremor is so pronounced. Her walking gait is halting and unsteady, and she has fallen numerous times. She has trouble keeping track of the medications she is supposed to be taking every four hours to help manage her symptoms. Basic daily tasks such as getting dressed are now proving to be a challenge. More complex tasks such as cooking or baking are pretty much out of the question.

 

Your father dearly loves your mother, but he is entirely ill-equipped to provide the help that she needs. He proudly declares that he can’t even boil water; he has never cooked a day in his life. He has been depending on ordering takeout food, but your parents are already tired of fast food. When it comes to helping your mother get dressed, he is flummoxed by her undergarments and embarrassed about helping her to dress. His no-nonsense, high-efficiency mentality made him an excellent businessman, but those same traits are not helpful when trying to assist his wife in getting dressed. It’s not a stellar start to their day when getting dressed becomes a major mission and sets the tone for the day.

 

Although your parents insist that they’ve gotten this far by weathering life’s storms together, it’s time for some expert assistance. While your father has many great talents and skills, providing personal care and household assistance are not his specialties. Your mother deserves the care and attention that a trained caregiver can provide.

 

Benefits of Professional Care

A professional caregiver can support your mother's physical needs and set her up for success each day. This includes making the morning routine feel like daily pampering instead of a chore. A caregiver can spend time doing her hair and makeup and helping her select her outfit and jewelry for the day so she can maintain the poised appearance she always prided herself on.

 

Your father wants this outcome for your mother—he wants her to feel well each day, to look her best, take pride in her appearance, and start each day strong. He may just need help recognizing that he isn’t the best one to provide this support. His heart is in the right place, but he has limited life experience in this department, and for your mother’s sake, it is worth it to enlist a professional who can make an enormous difference.

 

It is okay to acknowledge that everyone has different skills, strengths, and life experiences. Your father has many valuable skills that made him an excellent businessman. He continues to use those skills to manage household finances and monitor their stock portfolio. But he is ill-equipped to manage the nuances that come with personal care and supporting his wife through her Parkinson’s journey.

 

Enlisting additional support does not mean that he does not love his wife sufficiently to help her; it means he loves her enough to ensure that she has the professional and experienced care that she deserves.

 

Let your father play to his strengths and let us demonstrate our caregiving strengths to support your mother in her journey.

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